Neurorehabilitation from the Trenches: TBI Toleration Pack
I know I've Outlined the contents of a similar pack before, but those things, although still valid, represent tools that have made my early experiences more tolerable, not to mention, it is possible to decide to get them AFTER the fact. This grouping represents critical corner stones of my rehabilitation. In no particular order then, departing from my new format, I'd like to outline two major advantages that I've enjoyed.
Partner
This is probably true of other existential crises that you could face, but a solid partner is essential to neuroreabilitation. I've a long way to go, but when I get there, and I will, I will have Claire to thank.
As well as the endlessness of it all, she encourages me not to accept the status quo, and instead, to train harder to better my condition. It helps that she, like me, has been researching neurorehabilitation, and understands that a person only gets out, what they put in. One of her frequent taunts is --and I'll have to paraphrase.
"Do you believe in magic? that you're going to magically get better?"
As a dyed-in-the-wool atheist, this usually pushes the right buttons, to get the desired response. Because, I HATE walking, and, without Claire, I may have racked up 40% of my current mileage--being kind. In summary, it's worth thinking about your partner. Do they really have what it takes? If not, I recommend an upgrade, and if you decide to upgrade, I recommend a Type A personality, to compliment your probable type B. There is no better insurance policy, and there is no better segway into the next item on my list.
Insurance
When I think of my old perception of insurance, I think of suited middle-aged men, going door-to-door with a briefcase. Then I think of my old life, the carefree existence of a freelance software developer; not a care in the world, or a care for tomorrow. Fast forward a few short years, and I see insurance for the essential service it provides. My first bit of advice to all freelancers is to try to find a company willing to take you on -- the bigger the better. I was open to contract work when I moved to Germany, but now I see what a disaster that would have been. I would have been unemployed in Ireland -- probably fat and broke-- not to mention in-a-wheelchair, with little prospects. Advice I would have for freelancers who wish to remain thus, is to invest 5% of your pre tax monthly wages in various insurances, to ensure that, if the worst happens, your life remains worth living.
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